Play Date (Picture update)

So yesterday, Saturday June 10th, Locks and I set aside most of the day to play. In all we played probably about 7 hours with most of that time had me in my sensory deprivation hood and bound in several different ways. There was really to much that went on to try and put into words here but I just wanted to post a couple of pics to help share the story of our play date.

We had fun yesterday!

Define Exempt

According to exempt is defined as followed…

verb (used with object)


to free from an obligation or liability to which others are subject;release:

to exempt a student from an examination.


released from, or not subject to, an obligation, liability, etc.:

organizations exempt from taxes.
3. a person who is exempt from an obligation, duty, etc.
Locks decided this morning after I spun the wheel and landed on “exempt from t&d” that somehow exempt means that even if i as for t&d (and more importantly extra t&d) that it doesn’t count. What confuses me is that, per the definition, landing on exempt should free me of the obligation but now it somehow also negates all other t&d for the day and the reward that goes along with the extra said t&d. And to top it off, after Locks declared a new definition of the word exempt she then ensued to provide me with t&d from which i was exempt from. (btw, just to be clear we are both sitting here giggling our butts off while I am writing this, so this is in no way me being mad/venting but a humorous portrayal of what i have to up up with on a day to day basis!)

Chastity Times

I’ve neglected to post my monthly metrics the past two months so I wanted to get that caught up for the months of April and May. No excuses, just been lazy. Starting with April, for most of the month I was not in an assignment so I think the penis saw a little more free time than usual. So the numbers for April look like this…

April Chastity Metrics

For the month of April I spent 95% of it, or 685 hours, with the penis locked and encased in steel. Since I was not in an assignment for most of the month there were a few nights were I was allowed to even sleep cage free which actually accounts for much of the free time I was able to experience.

The month of May was very similar. Most of the month I was not in an assignment so the cage came off more often and was allowed to keep it off for longer periods of time. Now, I am not allowed to leave the house without my cage on so I don’t really get to be cage free for all that long anyways.  So May looks like this…

May Chastity Metrics

So for May I was locked up 92% of the month. I am not sure where that 7 hours of unaccounted time came from. My guess would be that I was asleep for most of that having not properly switched things around in the app to show free time before I passed out after pleasing Locks. Seems logical to me at least.

For the months of April and May i was out of an assignment for about 3/4 of that. This just kind of shows that whether or not I am in an assignment or not, I still very rarely even see the penis being fully encased in steel, never mind attaining a proper erection even. I was allowed 8 orgasms during that month and a half. Not because Locks wanted me to have an orgasm for my pleasure but because she really really enjoys the sensation of my pent-up loads blowing inside her. 3 or 4 of those orgasms I inadvertently ruined for myself by trying too hard to last longer for Locks resulting in me cuming inside her but me not really reaching even 1/2 of a full orgasm. One or two might have been attributed to having drank just a touch little too much of whiskey too. Yeah so, even when I am not in an assignment it’s not like I am running around all willy nilly and free and firing at will. Firing at will is not something that happens. So far this year I have had 17 orgasms. Of those orgasms 0 of them were of my own volition. Actually the only time I even touch an unencumbered penis is when for about 1 minute during inspection days when I do a quick wash of the penis before it’s placed in locks hands for the inspection. If cage free t&d does not follow an inspection I am out of my cage for at most like 3 minutes. And if cage free t&d ensues after then the majority of the time at least my hands are bound and locked to an eye bolt at the head of the bed. Yup, no longer a play thing of mine.

To give an idea of the difference what things have looked like so far this assignment I have a chart showing how much of the time I’ve been locked up.

begining of assignment 4

So far the penis has been free only 19 minutes which was for the only cage free t&d session this assignment has seen. Other than that the penis has been fully encased in a solid steel tube secured though my PA piercing and lock on. Fun times….

Chastity Assignment 4 (Ended??????)

This is Grumpys new assignment. He has been out of assignment for entirely too long.

  • This Assignment starts tonight at midnight (Thursday May 24th 2017 at 0001). I am not going to tell you the hard set end date.
  • You will come to me and request T&D at least once in every 24 hours and those times run from midnight to midnight.
  • If T&D is denied when you request it, you are expected to request it again at a better time. Failure to do so will add 6 hours to your time.
  • You will come to me for cleaning and inspection every 3 days if you are wearing the SW cage and every 2 days if you are wearing the RC cage. Failure to do so will add 3 days to your time.
  • My initiation of T&D does not fulfill your responsibility to request it and will not earn you more time.
  • You can earn 6 hours  for requesting and getting T&D more than once in a 24 hour period.
  • You will be assigned tasks that will earn you time off.
  • You can earn time off for pleasing me. This is not limited to my sexual gratification.
  • You will log everything pertaining to chastity or this assignment daily. Failure to log within 12 hours will add 6 hours to your time.

He had a really great idea of adding The Wheel which I am pretty sure he is going to regret since I am implementing it this time. The wheel will be spun on inspection day… or if I  just decide I want spun. The sections on the wheel will be:

  • Earn 6 hours
  • Add 12 hours
  • Cage Free T&D
  • No T&D
  • Earn 1 day
  • Add 3 days
  • Reward
  • Spin 2 more times

If the wheel lands on Reward, he can suggest what he would like his reward to be. It does not have to be related to his chastity or assignment. I reserve the right to refuse suggestions and of course, time off will not even be considered.

Cage free T&D can be ‘banked’

No T&D will be for that day only.

Spin 2 more times will apply both spins to his assignment.

Assignment 4 wheel

Life got a bit too lifelike there for a bit and then it seemed we fell into this odd weekday rut. Our longer weekend play sessions just kind of stopped happening due to other obligations for the most part. While assignments can get kind of rut-like, its still better than things have been.

As a end note: This post is how he will find out he is in assignment. Though I am fairly certain he knew it was coming soon.

6 June, Reward agreed upon is to bank a cage free t&d session.
6 June, t&d requested at 2315 for 17 minutes.
7 June, earned 12 hours for a full body massage and 6 hours for coming up with a fresh heated blanket right out of the dryer right after the massage.
7 June, T&d requested at 2320 for 27 minutes.
8 June, we were planning on t&d but sleep cam early for Locks and I didn’t want to wake her up.
9 June, t&d requested at 0915 for 35 minutes.
10 June, t&d requested at 0823 for 40 minutes.
10 June, extra t&d requested at 1202 for 22
minutes. Running tally at 42 hours off my time.
10 June, we played today… my ass is very red and bloody. We played then we played again. So by the standards of this agreement ive earned 12 hours. After a good beating i eventually asked for more. I was on the verve of tears the first time and maybe wanted to try again but a couldnt spring anouther tear. All good though running tally now at 54 hours
10 June, inspection requested at about 1600. Long play session ensued.
10 June, after the inspection I was tied up and beaten and treased for I’m guessing for about 3 hours. It’s really hard for me to keep track of the time cause well, in tied up and not able to look at clock but also most of the time we play I am wearing my sensory deprivation leather hood and that just makes the concept of time so much more difficult. This also counts as extra t&d. Tally at 60.
10 June, we stopped playing so we could make dinner and watched a movie. I asked Locks if we could play some more, that I needed more. She was happy to ablige and we played again with me hooded, bound, gagged, cage free and teased and beaten and lovingly abused for another 3 or 4 hours. Earned just 6 more hours ( doesn’t seem entirely fair that I only earned 12 hours from my time for more than 6 hours of beatings and teasings) tally at 66 hours.
11 June, t&d requested at 0030 for 20 minutes… got Locks off several times.
11 June, extra t&d requested at 0730 for 25 minutes. Locks woke up to the sensation of having two fingers buried into her pussy and 3 orgasms before she ever opened her eyes today. Running tally at 72 hours.
11 June, we didn’t spin the wheel yesterday after my inspection so I was told to spin twice this morning. The first spin landed one 1 day off my time (tally at 96 hours) and the second spin landed on “exempt from t&d”.
11 June, at 2030 this evening I was informed that this assignment has ended after 19 days (including the 96 hours or 4 days I had earned off). Apparently this was going to be a quick assignment this time………..

March’s Chastity Numbers

Another month of 2017 comes to a close.  Therefore it is time to share what chastity has looked like for me this month.  For those that have read though my blog, we know that my Current assignment started at 0001 on 2 March. This month I think I did a really good job at keep accurate times of the time I have spent in and (occasionally out of) chastity. As you will see in a moment, unaccounted time equals 0% for the month. I can also assure you that unsupervised time uncaged during assignments also equals 0%. In addition almost all of the time I have spent cage free during my assignment has been spent with at least my hands cuffed and bound in some way.  Pretty much the only time spend with a free penis and hands is during taking the cage off and cleaning then cleaning and putting the cage back on. So, here’s what this month looked like…

March Chastity Metrics

As you can see I spent 714 hours of a total possible 744 hours locked in chastity. This leaves about 30 hours of cage free time. That 30 hours also accounts for the 14 hours of cage free time that lead up the start of this assignment. So if i adjust the pie graph to remove March 1st it looks like this.

March Assignment 3 Metrics

Very similar but you can see that for the remainder of the 30 days left in march my free time dropped by half. Of course I cannot just leave a day out but thought that info was interesting.

So, without knowing when this assignment is going to end, at this point I do not see this month to be much different than what this month will in the end up showing.

What Does t&d Look Like?

So, I’ve been asked what a t&d session looks like between Locks and I. I’ve been trying to decide how best to answer this question and have come to the conclusion that our t&d can be best described within two general categories. There are a lot of different things we do for t&d so describing what this isn’t the easiest thing to put into words. The first category I am going to call maintenance t&d (MTD). t&d when done daily like we do for these longish chastity assignments tends to lead to certain common activities or rituals.

We of course did not set out to establish these rituals but when you do something daily routines develop. For example, we have found that our MTD sessions tend to last almost exactly 20 minutes every time. We do not set a timer or anything but a certain level of efficiency has set in. As of this moment we are 28 days, 16 hours and 54 minutes into this assignment (not that I am counting or anything). During that time we have had over 40 t&d sessions. I’d guess over half of those were MTD sessions. So far we are 89 days into 2017. of those 89 days I have been in active chastity assignments for almost 69 of those days. So yes, there has been a lot of t&d the two of us have been doing this year.  Obviously not all t&d sessions can be some crazy scene so rituals set in to maintain these daily t&d sessions.

So, what does MTD look like? Well, It’s simple in concept. For the most part I am always naked and laying on my back in the bed with Locks sitting crossed legged next to me. For these sessions the penis is almost always caged. We have a “personal massager” that Locks favors during these sessions. I wear mostly my steelworxx Steelheart cage which has just a small pee hole in an otherwise fully enclose cage (I hardly ever get to see the damn thing never mind touch it!)  The tip of the massager fits sorta well to the small opening at the bottom of the cage (or top of the cage if I’m laying on my back).  This sends a very pleasurable vibration though out the entire cage. We typically start off with using this to get an erection going.  At the beginning of my assignments this takes a little more time to achieve but the longer the assignment goes the less time it takes to get me hard, go figure…

Once I am as hard as my cage allows then things progress. Next normally comes the nipple play as Locks “jacks” me off with my cage, or she edges me with the massager first.  Locks leans down and starts sucking and biting on my nearest nipple (which most often is my left nipple) as she grabs a hold of my cage and starts to pull it up and down. This leads to a couple of edges normally. Next tends to be the ball pulling and slapping, though sometimes the ball busting starts things off too.  By this point I tend to drift off into non-orgasmic bliss and articulating the ritual is a bit fuzzy.  Clothes pins on the nipples are a common addition to MTD. As this assignment has progressed we have learned that I have really been enjoying ball abuse, especially when Locks grabs both of them in her hand and yanks and pulls them away from my body.  I really enjoy them being pulled on, especially from behind, pulling them between my legs.  Yup, I like that. Want them pulled on even harder. Yup, me on my hands and knees with my balls pulled back behind me. Stretched tight, vulnerable… We also learned that I can take a pretty good caning on my balls. That was agonizingly lovely…

But I digress.. Phew.. okay.. MTD… In the beginning of these assignments I don’t think 20 minutes really was enough but now that we are far into my third assignment 20 minutes seems to be the magic amount of time for a MTD session to last. It really is kind of funny. 18 minutes isn’t quite enough, 22 minutes and I end up oozing (or “making a mess”, sometimes at the level of a ruined orgasm which we try to avoid).  We have learned that “oozing” does tend to give me a bit of release so we try to avoid it. Though the further we go the time frame from edging to orgasm gets smaller. Locks is good at reading me but “accidents” do happen.

For the most part of it, this sums of MTD for us. There are outliers. There has been a time or two that cage free MTD has happened though only when it coincides with inspection. In addition or MTD session tend to happen from Sunday though Wednesday. My days off from work typically are Friday and Saturday and Locks works Monday through Friday. This leads to what I am calling our exotic t&d (ETD) sessions to occur more on the weekend time frame (I know, totally shocking). When it comes to ETD, well.. I think that will be best for another post because there is so much more to cover. Things like strap-on use (both ways), hours of bondage, hours of impact play, play parties and so much more.. I think diving into all that will take several more posts to try and share.. So, on one final note to leave on… goodnight! 🙂

To Know, Or Not to Know…

Prior to the start of the most recent chastity assignment we had discussed incorporating me not knowing the end date for the assignment. I have to admit, not knowing did sound kind of hot. With this in mind, Locks decided that we would use this tactic this time around. Trial and error if nothing else. Not knowing does appeal to me. I was told that the timeframe that was decided on is going to push me. Knowing that does excite me on several levels. It has only been a few days into this assignment. As of this writing it has been 4 days and 21 hours. Not really long enough for the full effect to really take effect. But not knowing the end date at first did seem to propel those feelings of denial. Experience has shown that it often takes a good week after an orgasm for the effects of denial to take hold.

At this point I am still within this first week so my feelings on all this may change as time goes on. To begin with not knowing was very appealing. As these short days have progressed another aspect as crept into my mind. I am more used to not knowing a release date, not knowing when i am going to cum again than I am knowing that date. Once we started doing these chastity assignments, prior to that it my cage free time (and when I came) was all random and unknown to me. Since we started doing these assignments, I knew the end dates but in-between I an still caged and left unknowing of any release time. I am not saying that I prefer one way or the other when it comes to chastity assignments, just expressing some thoughts about starting an assignment that includes not knowing the end date. I am interested to see if or how my views may change as this assignment progresses.

February Metics

Another month has expired and it is passed due to post my Metrics for the last month.  This month has been a bit of a different one for me because we have incorporated a new device, the first one in about 6 years that has the potential for true long term wear. Unfortunately there has been some issues with the new device which has caused me to be cage free for a couple of extended periods of time. Twice I had to be cage free for 30 plus hours to allow some healing. But we are going back and fourth between the two cages and things are getting better with the new one. And so, without further adieu, here is the pie chart…

Feb Chastity Metrics

To start off, I was a little surprised to see that I was locked into the new cage for more than half of the month (51%). I do like the new Rigid Chastity device and I know I was trying to force things which caused two times requiring for those cage free periods. Those two cage free periods both lasted about 32 hours each. the final 12 hours cage free came prior to my most recent Chastity assignment.  I do have to admit there is more cage free time in there accounting for cage free t&d but neither Locks nor I are the best at remembering to set the app prior to play.  Still, the amount of time i spent cage free accounts for a minimal time over all. Best guess would be 1-2% time over all.  It hasn’t been the easiest month for us over all, between the cage issues and being out of town. I spent more time out of my cage than I am used to.  But life happens.

Chastity Assignment 3 – Ended

  • This Assignment starts tonight at midnight (00:01 2 March 2017). I am not going to tell you the end date.
  • You will come to me and request T&D at least once in every 24 hours and those times run from midnight to midnight.
  • If T&D is denied when you request it, you are expected to request it again at a better time. Failure to do so will add 6 hours to your time.
  • You will come to me for cleaning and inspection every 3 days if you are wearing the SW cage and every 2 days if you are wearing the RC cage. Failure to do so will add 3 days to your time.
  • My initiation of T&D does not fulfill your responsibility to request it and will not earn you more time.
  • You can earn 6 hours  for requesting and getting T&D more than once in a 24 hour period.
  • You can request to trade 6 hours for cage free T&D. However I reserve the right to refuse.
  • You will be assigned tasks that will earn you time off.
  • You can earn time off for pleasing me. This is not limited to my sexual gratification.
  • You will log all T&D, inspections and cleaning, and times as well as infractions. Failure to log within 12 hours is considered an infraction and will add 12 hours to your time.

The following is a log of activities as we progress through this assignment.

  1. t&d requested and granted 2 march at 9:10 pm.
  2. Earned 12 hours off my time (cannot say what the new release time is obviously) for doing something above what is expected of me. (also fixed a leaky faucet and re rearranged the bedroom, cleaning as i went)
  3. T&d requested and denied 3 march at about 2100. Failed to do a follow up request. 6 hours added to my time.
  4. T&d requested at 0900 on 4 march. Woke up a little horny and while Locks was sleeping I put on the hood and bound myself, giving her a little surprise for when she woke up.
  5. Inspection requested 5 Mar at 0730. Switched devices and now am wearing the rigidchastity device.
  6. t&d requested on 5 march but not given. Locks has been feeling a little ill, though apparently did earn 12 hours off my unknown time for being “generally awesome”
  7. T&d requested 7 march at about 0430 till about 0500.
  8. Inspection requested and switched back to the SH cage at about 0500 7 march.
  9. Extra t&d requested 7 march at 2017 for about an hour. Was given cage free. Earned 6 hours off my unknown time.
  10. t&d requested 8 march at 1745 for about 20 minutes.
  11. t&d requested 9 march at 2330 for about a half hour. Was instructed to use the strapon on Locks and that i would earn 2 hours off my time for every orgasm I gave her. She managed 10 orgasms so i earned 20 hours off my time. Currently a total of 44 hours has been accrued off my assignment time
  12. t&d requested 10 march at 1040 for about 30 minutes. This was cage free t&d ( with inspection)  which as always means that at least my hands were bound to the bed.
  13. Earned 10 hours off my time for randomly fucking Locks with the strapon which caused 5 orgasms for her.
  14. Earned 1 hour off my time for, on my own, using a lint roller on her black dress to get the white dog hair off of it. Locks was pleased that i took the initiative prior to us leaving to help make her look hella good! Total time off is now at 55 hours.
  15. extra t&d given at a play party Friday night 10 march at a play party we went to. earned 6 hours, total is now at 61 hours off.
  16. t&d was provided while in a hotel room after the play party very early Saturday morning. A friend and I stood in the doorway of the bedroom and watched another friend of ours eat the hell out of Locks. It was very hot and I was very hard and horny especially while the girl next to me was tugging on my balls. I also went down on both of our friends for a good bit each all while locked up. I’m getting pretty hard right now thinking and typing about it. I think this should earn me extra t&d damn, now I’m fucking horny as hell and I’m gonna have to leave for work soon!
  17. Extra t&d requested 11 March. I can’t really give a time frame on this because we spend pretty much the entire afternoon and night after we got home from the hotel in the bed being highly horny with each other. A conservative guess would be that Locks had at least 20 orgasms yesterday. I of course didn’t have any and was caged the entire time (and obviously still am) I was told i earned 12 hours for everything we did yesterday with my running tally now at 73 hours off.
  18. t&d requested 12 march at about 0845 for about 15 minutes and yet another orgasm for Locks this morning!
  19. Inspection requested and given 13 march.
  20. t&d requested 13 March at about 1800 and lasted for about 30 minutes
  21. t&d was requested on 14 march but due to Locks being ill it did not happen. No time was taken off my assignment.
  22. t&d requested 15 march at 1015 for about 10 minutes.
  23. t&d requested 16 March at 2300 for about 20 minutes
  24. Inspection requested 17 March which coincided with the following day’s t&d session.
  25. t&d planned (which counts for a requested t&d) 17 March at 1245 for over 3 hours. Cage free t&d (not able to do long sessions with the cage on, the base ring gets too painful) At the moment we are just taking a break and will be headed back to it after we eat. And btw, holy hell i want to cum!
  26. Earned 12 hours for pleasing Locks by taking her phone with me while i ran a couple of errands in between play sessions to get some pokestops. Running tally at 85 hours off.
  27. t&d continued after dinner lasting for another couple of hours. It was more cage free t&d which as always means i was bound. Lost 12 hours for “manipulating” Locks to go to a place she did not want to go. Running tally is now at 73 hours off my time.
  28. Extra t&d requested 17 march at 2325 for about 30 minutes. Running tally now at 79 hours off my time.
  29. t&d requested 18 march at 0833 and lasted for about 25 minutes.
  30. t&d requested 19 March at 0835 and lasted for about 30 minutes
  31. Inspection requested 20 march at 1845
  32. t&d requested 20 March at 1845 following inspection. t&d was cage free for about 45 minutes with arms cuffed to the bed and legs suspended to the bar above the bed.
  33. Extra t&d requested 20 March at about 2230. Locks wasn’t feeling very well so it did not happen but I was given 3 hours for my “ambition”. Running total time off is not at 82 hours.
  34. t&d requested 21 March at 2300 for about 20 minutes.
  35. t&d did not happen on 22 March. We were both very tired and not feeling too well. No time was added for this one.
  36. Earned 3 extra hours for saying something very funny and clever. Total is at least 85 hours.
  37. t&d requested 23 March at 2000 and went off and on for about 2 hours.
  38. t&d requested 24 March at 0830 for about 35 minutes.
  39. Extra t&d requested the afternoon of 24 March for a couple of hours. Add 6 hours.
  40. Extra t&d requested the evening of 24 March for 57 minutes. Add 6 hours with the running total at 97 hours. This was cage free t&d and I was even allowed inside Locks and able to give her a couple of orgasms with the penis before i had to stop cause… holy fuck that felt good!
  41. Extra t&d requested the night of 24 March for about an hour and a half. This time there was the usual nipple sucking/pinching/biting but also a good bit of cane action on my ass, thighs and balls… Yup, my balls got good and caned last night. Running tally is at 103 hours.
  42. t&d requested 25 March at about 0800 for 20 minutes. Last night Locks hurt her hands from spanking me so our plans for kayaking today got changed to laying in bed and watching movies.  So yeah, I’m sure it’s going to be another long frustrating day for the penis…………..
  43. Extra t&d requested 25 march at 1402 for 20 minutes. Running tally at 109 hours.
  44. Extra t&d requested 25 March at about 1600 for another 20 minutes. Tally at 115 hours.
  45. Extra t&d requested 25 March at about 1830 for 15 minutes. Tally is at 121 hours.
  46. Early inspection requested, more for cleaning purposes.
  47. t&d requested March 26th at 0845 for about 25 minutes. There were at least 20 edgings done.
  48. Gave Locks a massage today, 26 March for about 30 minutes. Apparently she really enjoyed it cause she gave me 20 hours off my time. Running tally now at 141 hours. (And this is why I so rarely give people massages, I’m kind of good at it :/
  49. I was exempted from t&d on 27 March due to a long day at work.
  50. t&d was given 27 March for about 20 minutes and I was told that it counts as extra t&d since I had been exempted for the day. Tally at 147 hours.
  51. t&d requested 28 march that consisted of me (caged of course) wearing the strapon and fucking Locks for about 30 minutes. Though i lost 12 hours because i did not log the t&d within the 12 hour time frame. Tally now at 135 hours.
  52. Earned an extra 12 hours for reasons not to be disclosed. Tally back at 147 hours.
  53. t&d requested 29 march at 2013 for 27 minutes.  I was uncaged and was able to get the penis good and wet inside Locks for about 20 minutes edging myself numerous times without of course cuming. The last 7 minutes or so was spent with Locks continuing to edge me some more with one of our “personal massagers.”
  54. Inspection occurred 29 March at 2012 just prior to the above t&d.
  55. Was exempt from t&d for 30 March.
  56. Okay so, t&d happened this morning starting at 0638. While Locks was sleeping I started to rub her clit with my hand. For a few moments there was no response then as she started to wake up to the sensations I inserted a couple of fingers and did my thing leading her to a couple of orgasms.  Then i moved up the bed a bit so i could put the cage in her hand (which i was already as hard as i can get in the cage). At that point the next step of t&d started and continued until 0700 when the alarm when off. Afterwards I asked if that counted as t&d since I didn’t actually VERBALLY asked prior to all this, which would have meant that I would have to woken her up first which kind of defeats the purpose of wanting to wake Locks up with fingers buried in her pussy. So yeah, I was told that this morning did not count for my daily t&d but she was kind enough to give me three hours for pleasing her… Running tally now at 150 hours.
  57. Inspection requested 31 March. Switched out cages and now wearing the Ridgidchastity cage. We will see how that goes.
  58. t&d requested 31 March at 2315 for about 30 minutes. Consisted of me fucking Locks with the strap-on…
  59. t&d requested the morning of 1 April for about 30 minutes at about maybe 0730.
  60. Extra t&d requested 1 April at about 2300 for about 40 minutes. This session was mostly impact play that left my ass good and bloody. Running tally at 156 hours.
  61. I was exempt from t&d 2 April.
  62. Inspection occurred 3 April at around 2000. Still wearing the new ridgidchastity device and this time around things are going well. No pain and no bleeding.
  63. Locks is not feeling well and I was exempt from t&d for 3 April.
  64. Exempt from t&d for 4 April.
  65. Experiencing a little tenderness from the RC device. Switched back to the SH cage on 5 April at 0830.
  66. t&d requested 5 April at 0900 for about 10 minutes.
  67. T&d requested 6 April at 2230 for about 45  minutes. Included some lighter bondage.
  68. Inspection requested 7 April and switched back to the RC cage.
  69. Play party on 7 April which always counts for t&d.
  70. Earned 12 hours off my time for taking care of Locks while at a local event while she was sick.
  71. Earned 6 hours off my time for a joke our friend Joy will get when she reads this and asks about it. Running tally now at 168 hours.
  72. Exempt from t&d 8 april.
  73. Requested t&d 9 april at about 0910 for 20 minutes.
  74. t&d requested 10 April at 1720 for 35 minutes. So much edging, so fucking close but of course, Nope!
  75. Inspection requested 10 April at 1815.

Bloody Hell…

Over the past weekend Locks and I were out-of-state visiting her family. I have been going back and forth a bit between my new, rigid chastity, and old, steelheart, devices. The RC device  has been giving me some trouble. Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with the device itself but it may not be a good fit for me. With it being so small the PA hook part is a bit short for me and pulls on the PA hole some, essentially pulling on the hole stretching it out. So I have been wearing it for a few days at a time, using it to essentially gauge my PA hole so the device will fit more comfortably for longer term wear. The down side by doing this is that it ends up causing some irritation which causes swelling around the hole so it’s not having the desired effect right now.

Two days prior to leaving the state we had put my RC on. Those two days I didn’t have any issue with the discomfort from the PA hook. Our original plan was to switch back to the SH before we left but since it was feeling good I asked not to do so. I wanted to push it a little more hoping that the gauging was actually working. Once we got to our destination things were still good. By Friday morning I was starting to feel a bit of the discomfort. I have noticed that in the mornings I tend to feel this the worst, thinking it has to do with nocturnal erections. Then as the day progresses the discomfort lessens and sometimes vanishes all together. So that first day, Friday, this is what happened. Friday evening i was more active than usual playing with kids, wrestling, playing with hoops, tickle fights and pillow fights and the such. Well, with this abnormal activity for me i started feel the discomfort come back a little but didn’t think much of it. Eventually to bed we went (on a crazy uncomfortable pull out couch btw.)

Saturday morning showed up way too fast to find that this discomfort and become more of a pain, a continuous pain. It was different. Before long I (discreetly) requested the key so I could take my cage off. Just didn’t feel right. At the time getting the keys from around her neck couldn’t be done inconspicuously so we had to wait a while. About 4 hours later, when we had a moment alone I reminded Locks that I needed to take my cage off and was able to retrieve the key from her neck. I then grabbed the SH thinking I was just going to switch then out and headed up to the bathroom and locked the door. I got the SH all set up to put on then put the key in the RC, turned and pulled out the lock. I then removed the main part of the cage and… and.. and… phew that hurt! Though to myself, “that’s a first.” I then looked down and, “oh, bloody hell… there’s blood.” I grabbed some TP and blotted away what I could, knowing the worst was yet to come.

So, The PA hook for the RC is a static rigid part that incorporates into the cage.  A big part of the reason we went with this device. The concept is awesome and if fitted right I think it would be awesome. It’s hard to explain exactly how it fits. It’s kind of in an L shape with the long part of the L sticking out of the tip of the penis and the bottom shorter part going though the PA hole. The only downfall to this design is that in the corner where the two parts meet, the overall thickness seems to be greater in size than the 2 gauge that my PA is. So getting the hook in is a bit of a stretch to begin with. Knowing all this, I know that getting the hook out was going to be… a little uncomfortable to say the least but it had to be done. It took several tries. It was kind of like putting a butt plug in. One can’t really just shove a decent sized plug in all willy nilly. You kind of have to slowly work it in and stretch the anus for a moment. So, that’s kind of the approach I took. Still, once I got to the biggest point, yup, not fun. I stood there holding onto the sink for a minute.

Once my vision and mental capacity fully returned I wiped away the blood that was there and cleaned the penis. I then realized that with that much “irritation” and soon even more swelling that i really needed to at least get my 2g PA ring back in lest risk not being able to do so for a bit. That wasn’t horrible but was still not fun. I then contemplated trying to get by SH on, cause well I know locks 100%prefers me locked up (and really, so do I), but after actually a bit of self debate about it the nurse in me prevailed and I decided on the more prudent course of action and left the throbbing penis (in this case, definitely not the good kind of throbbing) uncaged. I packed everything up and went down stairs where i discretely showed Locks the blood tinged TP and told her that I was uncaged.

I am happy to report that after 30 hours and 20 minutes of being cage free I am back in the SH. Fortunately I am a quick healer. There is still a bit of pain if I pull on the PA ring but so far the SH hasn’t given me any issues.

So, I want to make something clear. With writing this I am in no way knocking RigidChastity devices. What i have is an extremely well made device and I do really love the design and love the concept of the PA hook. I believe that the sizing we had ordered is off. Still working out exactly where the issue is. Yes the cage is so very short but i don’t thing that is the issue. It has something to do with the PA hook. Either the Long part of the L is too short or the bottom part is too short, or maybe a combo of both. The penis when hard is pretty average in length but has more girth than average. I’ve not given up on the RC device at all. I will wear it more, if nothing else but to try to narrow down exactly what the issue is because we very well may order another one from them at some point.