Chastity Assignment 5 ended. July 16th – October 11 (88 Days in assignment though 144 days total without a full orgasm.)

  • This assignment starts tonight at midnight,  July 16th and will end on September 15th. You will log a running tally of time added and earned with the new end date.
  • You will come to me and request T&D at least once in every 24 hours and those times run from midnight to midnight.
  • If T&D is denied when you request it, you are expected to request it again at a better time. Failure to do so will add 12 hours to your time.
  • You will come to me for cleaning and inspection every 3 days. Failure to do so will add 3 days to your time.
  • You can earn 6 hours  for requesting and getting T&D more than once in a 24 hour period. You are limited to earning 6 hours in a 24 hour period.
  • You will log everything pertaining to chastity or this assignment daily. Failure to log any event within 12 hours will add 12 hours to your time.
  • The wheel will be spun on inspection day and the sections on the wheel will be exactly as follows:
  • Earn 6 hours
  • Add 12 hours
  • Cage Free T&D
  • No T&D
  • Earn 1 day
  • Add 3 days
  • Please me
  • Spin 2 more times

Cage free T&D can be banked

No T&D will be for that day only and cannot be banked. Any T&D I decide to give will not earn you time off as extra. We aren‚Äôt going though this exempt shit again ūüėČ

Please me is replacing Reward on the wheel since that didn’t go so well. Should you land on this, I will give you a task. You will log what your task was unless otherwise directed not to and failure to log will add 12 hours to your time.


All of the previously set standards will apply to this assignment. Those are, but not limited to:

Once an assignment begins it cannot be altered in any way.

Life happens.

All assignment requirements go on pause when we are on trips such as camping with others or visiting family or friends.

I will give you time off for good behavior.

I will add time for bad behavior.

Tease and Denial will be completely without mercy.


1. 16 July, T&d requested at 2329 for about 20 minutes.

2. 17 July, earned 12 hours utilizing my magic hands in the for of a foot massage tonight. End date at 15 Sept at 1200.

3. 17 July, T&d requested at 2340 for 25 minutes.

4. 18 July, inspetion requested at 2248. Wheel was spin and landed on 12 hours. End date back at sept 15th at 2359.

5. 18 July, T&d requested at 2310 for 37 minutes.

6. 19 July, earned 12 hours for another foot massage. Release date at 15 sept at 1200.

7. 19 July, T&d requested at 2255. Was instructed to spin the wheel and landed on cage free t&d and I elected to go ahead and use it and not bank it. T&d lasted 44 minutes.  Kind of spontaneously I was able to fuck Locks tonight for a good bit giving her several orgasms which I was told earned me 12 hours. Release date at 14 Sept @ 2359.

8. 20 July, locks told me tobsponbthe wheel again tonight. Landed on “earn 1 day.”  Release date at 13 Sept @ 2359.

9. 20 July, t&d requested at 2220 for 22 minutes.

10. 21 July, exempt from t&d. Life happens.

11. 22 July, T&d requested at 2220 for 25 minutes.

12. 23 July, T&d requested at 2205 for 25 minutes.

13. 24 July, 1022, instructed to spin the wheel, just because. Landed on add 12 hours. Release date at 14 Sept @ 1200.

14. 24 July, inspection requested at 2245. Spun the wheel and landed on 2 more spins. Subsequent spins were add 13 hours and please locks. In addition I neglected to request inspection last inspection day so 3 days added to my time. Release date now at 17 Sept at 2359.

15. 25 July, T&d requested at 0005 for 50 minutes. This counts for t&d for the 24th as well for my spin for pleasing locks due to managing some how about 30 minutes of strait penis in pussy fucking with loosing track of the amount of orgasms Locks had (needlessly to say none for me but I am left feeling pretty sexually satisfied.)

16. 25 July, T&d requested at 2359 for about 20 minutes.

17. 26 July, t&d requested at at 1030 for about 35 minutes. (Just to be clear, I was not left sexually satisfied!)

18. 27 July, inspection requested at 2145. Spun the wheel and landed on earn one day. Release date at 16 Sept @ 2359. 

19. 27 July, T&d requested at 2150 and was cage free following the inspection. Lasted for 28 minutes. 

20. 28 July, asked to spin the wheel for the heck of it. Landed on add 12 hours. Release date set at 17 Sept @ 1200.

21. 28 July, was told to spin the wheel again. Landed on two more spins. Following spins were add 12 hours then gain 6 hours. Release date at Sept 17 @1800.

22. Right after spinning the wheel I was told to spin the wheel again. Earned a day. Release date at Sept 16 & 1800.

23. Yet again spin the wheel. Add 12 hours. Release date at Sept 17 @ 0600.

24. 28 July, t&d requested at 2100 for about an hour. 

25. 28 July, add 12 hours for refusing to log something that I felt I didn’t earn. Release date at Sept 17 @ 1800.

26. 29 July, the entire day counts for t&d today. We decided to not a start time because we are being lazy and spending the day in bed watching TV while spontaneously starting t&d and/or me getting Locks off again and again. I am also actually getting to spend most of the day cage free (other than to pee I’m not touching the penis though.)

27. Asked to spin the wheel. Landed on please Locks.

28. Locks came no less than 15 times today. After finally squirting all over the penis inside her for the second time she had to essentially call red and make me stop. Some one is gonna be sore tomorrow!

29. My spinning the wheel for pleasing Locks consisted of a foot massage. 

30. Asked to spin the wheel again since I fulfilled my previous spin. Landed on please Locks again. 

31. 30 July, asked to spin again this morning. Landed on spin two more times, then landed on spin two more times again so spin 3 more times and landed on cage free t&d, earn one day and then please Locks. Release date at Sept 16 @ 1800. 

32. 30 July, T&d requested at 1858 for an hour. Included lots and lots of cage free edging, several orgasms for Locks, some impact play and a slightly bloody ass for me. 

33. 30 July, inspection requested following t&d. Spun the wheel and again landed on please locks with a total of 2 banked now. 

32. 31 July, t&d requested at 0835 for 25 minutes.

33. 31 July, spun the wheel and landed on no T&d. Already had t&d today so that’s of no use. Told to spin again and landed on earn 6 hours. Release date at Sept 16 @ 1200. 

34. 1 Aug, exempt from t&d today. Life happens.

35. 2 Aug, inspection requested 2300. Spun the wheel and landed on add 3 days. Release date at Sept 19th @ 1200. Following inspection a “please Locks” was used for a massage. T&d followed the massage for about 15 minutes.

36. 3 Aug, didn’t ask for t&d. Life happened. There is not a specified consequence for not asking for t&d. Adding a week seems reasonable to me so unless told otherwise my release date is now at Sept 26th @ 1200. 

37. 4 Aug, T&d requested at 0913 for about 15 minutes.

28. 4 Aug, Locks added another week to my time because I did not talk with her first about the consequence for not having asked for t&d yesterday. Release date at Oct 3rd @ 1200. 

39. 4 Aug, I am going to be out of town until Sunday so the assignment will be on hold until I get back. 

40. 6 Aug, back at home. Inspection requested and spin the wheel. Landed on earn one day. Release date at 2 Oct @ 1200. 

41. 6 Aug, T&d requested at 1510 and was cage free following inspection. Lasted 30 minutes.

42. 6 Aug, asked to spin again. Landed on earn 6 hours. Release date at 2 Oct @ 0600.

43. 7 Aug, excused from t&d today. 

44. 8 Aug, T&d requested at 2231 for about 10 minutes.

45. 9 Aug, inspection requested but never ended up happening. Will request again in the morning. 

46. 9 Aug, T&d requested and lasred for about 20 minutes as I fucked Locks with the strapon.

47. 10 Aug, 0730 woke Locks up to a few orgasms and requested t&d which all took 30 minutes. 

48. 10 Aug, heading out for some camping and kayaking for the next 4 days. Assignment on hold.

49. 16 Aug, got back from our camping trip on the 14th. Restarted the assignment at  midnight. Was exempt from t&d on the 15th bit failed to log. Add 12 hours. Release date at 2 Oct @ 1800. 

50. 16 Aug, was exempt from t&d again. I injured my ankle pretty good while kayaking. 

51. 17 Aug, inspection requested at 2340. Spun the wheel and landed on add 12 hours. Release date at 3 Oct @ 0600. 

52. 17 Aug, T&d requested at 2344 and lasted 23 minutes. 

54. 18 Aug, t&d requested at 2315 for 35 minutes. About the last 10 of which was getting Locks off.

55. 19 Aug, exempt from t&d. Life happens and this time it really sucks.

56. 20 Aug, exempt from t&d today. Life continues to happen. 

57. 21 Aug, Inspection requested. Spun the wheel and landed on earn 6 hours. Release date at 2 Oct @ 2359.

58. 21 Aug, exempt from t&d. More life happening. 

59. 22 Aug,exempt from t&d again today. Worked a long day and with my ankle injury… Life happens still more unfortunately.

60. 23 Aug, my birthday! Told to spin the wheel. Landed on spin two more times. Landed on add 12 hours then landed on add 12 hours. Release date at 3 Oct@ 2359.

61. 24 Aug, T&d requested at 0936 for about 15 minutes.

62. 25 Aug, T&d requested at 0003 for 15 minutes.

63.  25 Aug, inspection requested at 2220. Spun the wheel and landed on earn 6 hours. Release date at 3 Oct & 1800.

64. 26 Aug, T&d requested at 0720 for about 10 minutes. Mostly consisted of me getting Locks off with my fingers and wand with her yanking on my cage some.

65. 27 Aug, exempt from t&d today. More life happening and very busy.

66. 28 Aug, inspection requested. Spun the wheel and landed on cage free t&d. 3 now banked. 

68. 28 Aug, exempt from t&d today. Was a long day of work for me.

69. 29 Aug, life continues to happen and I am exwomt from t&d. 

70. 30 Aug, T&d requested at 2308 for 22 minutes. Locks also elected to have a cage free session.

71. 31, Aug, told to spin the wheel twice. Landed on cage free t&d and earn 12 hours. Release date at 3 oct at 0600.

72. 31 Aug, t&d requested at 2300 for 45 minutes following inspection. Spun the wheel and landed on cage free t&d again. Opted to ask for cage free t&d and now have 4 banked. Though this cage free t&d involved mostly just impact play…

73. 2 sept, failed to log my exemption from t&d yesterday. Add 12 hours I think. Release date at 3 Oct @ 1800. 

74. 2 Sept, T&d requested at a time I’m not sure cause I was hooded and blindfolded. We played and I think lasted about an hour. 

75. 3 Sept, T&d requested at 0803 for about 15 minutes.

76. 3 Sept, inspection requested. Spun the wheel and landed on on earn 6 hours. Asked ttobsponbthethe wheel a second time and landed on add 3 days. Release date at 6 Oct @ 1200. 

77. 4 Sept, exempt from t&d today. Worked over 12 hours.

78. 5 Sept, exempt from t&d. Long day for the both of us. We are about to cross over into the 52nd day of this assignment.

79. 6 Sept, exempt from t&d . Another long day.

80. 7 Sept failed to request inspection yesterday. Release date now at 9 Oct @ 1200. Inspection requested today. Spun the wheel and landed on please Locks……

81. Asked to spin the wheel again, you know, for the fun of it… Landed on add 3 days yet again. Release date at 12 Oct @ 1200. 

82. 7 Sept, requested t&d. Can’t give the most accurate of times but my ass is bloody and Locks is now sound asleep.

83. 8 Sept, T&d requested at 0700 for about 15 minutes.

84. 9 Sept, unfortunately had to be exempt from t&d. We had on playing again tonight but life happens.

85. 10 Sept, exempt from t&d due to another long work day. 

86. 10 Sept, inspection requested. Spun the wheel and landed on cage free t&d. Back up to 3 banked. Was told to spin again and landed on add three days (gee, thanks!) Release date at 15 Oct @ 1200. 

87. 11 Sept, T&d requested at 1417 for 21 minutes. 

88. 12 Sept, T&d was requested but we were both up late and didnt happen. I was told that there would be no repercussions if it did not happen….. Scratch that, T&d did happen for about 20 minutes.

89. 13 Sept, inspection requested. Spun the wheel and landed on add 12 hours. Told to spin again and landed on add 3 days. And told to spin one more time and almost landed on add 3 days but just barely managed to cross over to ear one day… yay… Release date at Oct 18th @ 0001. 

90. 13 Sept, t&d requested at 2304 for 33 minutes following inspection. Was a cafe free session.

92. 14 Sept, exempt from t&d for today. Right Call for locks tonight.

93. 15 Sept, another 12 hour work day and therefore exempt from t&d today.

94. 16 Sept, T&d requested at about 2215 for about 15 minutes of me fucking Locks with the strapon.  

95. 17 Sept, expect from t&d due to my work schedule. 

96. 18 Sept, exempt from t&d today.

97. 19 Sept, t&d was postponed 12 hours….

98. 20 Sept, t&d requested at 1200 for an hour and 34 minutes. Cage free and locked down and immobile as possible. The penis was literally rubbed raw and I was actually glad to get my cage back on in the end. That was some of the merciless t&d we have ever done….

99. 20 Sept, inspection requested. Spun the wheel and landed on earn one day. Release date at Oct 17th @ 0001.

100. 21 Sept, t&d requested at 2358 for 20 minutes.

101. 22 Sept, adding 12 hours for waiting till it was really late to ask for t&d. T&d was denied but not expemt. Release date Oct 17th at 1200. 

102. 23 Sept, we had company tonight so t&d and inspection both were excused till tomorrow.

103. 24. Sept, another long 12 hour work day. Exempt from t&d and inspection delayed one more day. 

104. 25 Sept, inspection requested, spun the wheel and landed on no T&d. 

105. 25 Sept, T&d requested anyways. Locks isn’t feeling well so it was denied for now, if she starts feeling better it might happen later. 

106. 26 Sept, Locks still not feeling well so was exempt again today. Was told to spin the wheel for the fun of it and landed on earn 6 hours. Release date at Oct 17th @ 0600.

107. 27 Sept, no t&d again today. 

108. 28 Sept, inspection requested at 1740. Spin the wheel and landed on please Locks. 

109. 28 Sept, T&d rrequested at 1744 for 31 minutes. Opted to use one of my banked cage free sessions. 2 left.

110. 29 Sept, t&d requested at 2300.  Locks wasn’t feeling well and was told maybe. 

111. 30 Sept, t&d requested first time at about 1100. We started to actually play at about 2300 for about 2 1/2 hours and boy can I tell you my back side is one fire! 

112. 1 Oct, worked over 12 hours today which exempts me from t&d. 

113. 2 Oct, inspection requested at noon. Spun the wheel and landed on no t&d. 

114. 2 Oct, t&d requested anyways. Cage free t&d following inspection but was a really quick session, only could manage a few minutes.

115. 3 Oct, t&d requested at 1225 for 25 minutes. 

116. 4 Oct, failed to request t&d………… release date at 17 Oct @ 1800.

117. 5 Oct, exempt from t&d.

118. 6 Oct, inspection requested. Spun the wheel and landed on add 3 more fucking days… release date 20 Oct @ 1800. 

119. 6 Oct, t&d requested at 2148 for 20 minutes. Used a banked cage free t&d. One left. 

120. 7 Oct, t&d was requested but yeah.. adding another 12 hours… 21 Oct at 0600. 

121. 8 Oct, t&d requested at about 2045 for about an hour. Involved some caning and me getting locks off several times. 

122. 9 Oct, t&d requested at 0830 for about 15 minutes.

123. 9 Oct, extra t&d requested at 0900 for about 10 minutes. Earned a whopping 6 hours……. 20 Oct @ 2359.

124. 9 Oct, inspection requested at 2130. Spun the wheel and landed on earn 6 hours. 20 Oct @ 1800. 

125. 10 Oct, exempt from t&d today. 


Play Date (Picture update)

So yesterday, Saturday June 10th, Locks and I set aside most of the day to play. In all we played probably about 7 hours with most of that time had me in my sensory deprivation hood and bound in several different ways. There was really to much that went on to try and put into words here but I just wanted to post a couple of pics to help share the story of our play date.

We had fun yesterday!

Define Exempt

According to exempt is defined as followed…

verb (used with object)


to free from an obligation or liability to which others are subject;release:

to exempt a student from an examination.


released from, or not subject to, an obligation, liability, etc.:

organizations exempt from taxes.
3. a person who is exempt from an obligation, duty, etc.
Locks decided this morning after I spun the wheel and landed on “exempt from t&d” that somehow exempt means that even if i as for t&d (and more importantly extra t&d) that it doesn’t count. What confuses me is that, per the definition, landing on exempt should free me of the obligation but now it somehow also negates all other t&d for the day and the reward that goes along with the extra said t&d. And to top it off, after Locks declared a new definition of the word exempt she then ensued to provide me with t&d from which i was exempt from. (btw, just to be clear we are both sitting here giggling our butts off while I am writing this, so this is in no way me being mad/venting but a humorous portrayal of what i have to up up with on a day to day basis!)

Chastity Times

I’ve neglected to post my monthly metrics the past two months so I wanted to get that caught up for the months of April and May. No excuses, just been lazy. Starting with April, for most of the month I was not in an assignment so I think the penis saw a little more free time than usual. So the numbers for April look like this…

April Chastity Metrics

For the month of April I spent 95% of it, or 685 hours, with the penis locked and encased in steel. Since I was not in an assignment for most of the month there were a few nights were I was allowed to even sleep cage free which actually accounts for much of the free time I was able to experience.

The month of May was very similar. Most of the month I was not in an assignment so the cage came off more often and was allowed to keep it off for longer periods of time. Now, I am not allowed to leave the house without my cage on so I don’t really get to be cage free for all that long anyways. ¬†So May looks like this…

May Chastity Metrics

So for May I was locked up 92% of the month. I am not sure where that 7 hours of unaccounted time came from. My guess would be that I was asleep for most of that having not properly switched things around in the app to show free time before I passed out after pleasing Locks. Seems logical to me at least.

For the months of April and May i was out of an assignment for about 3/4 of that. This just kind of shows that whether or not I am in an assignment or not, I still very rarely even see the penis being fully encased in steel, never mind attaining a proper erection even. I was allowed 8 orgasms during that month and a half. Not because Locks wanted me to have an orgasm for my pleasure but because she really really enjoys the sensation of my pent-up loads blowing inside her. 3 or 4 of those orgasms I inadvertently ruined for myself by trying too hard to last longer for Locks resulting in me cuming inside her but me not really reaching even 1/2 of a full orgasm. One or two might have been attributed to having drank just a touch little too much of whiskey too. Yeah so, even when I am not in an assignment it’s not like I am running around all willy nilly and free and firing at will. Firing at will is not something that happens. So far this year I have had 17 orgasms. Of those orgasms 0 of them were of my own volition. Actually the only time I even touch an unencumbered penis is when for about 1 minute during inspection days when I do a quick wash of the penis before it’s placed in locks hands for the inspection. If cage free t&d does not follow an inspection I am out of my cage for at most like 3 minutes. And if cage free t&d ensues after then the majority of the time at least my hands are bound and locked to an eye bolt at the head of the bed. Yup, no longer a play thing of mine.

To give an idea of the difference what things have looked like so far this assignment I have a chart showing how much of the time I’ve been locked up.

begining of assignment 4

So far the penis has been free only 19 minutes which was for the only cage free t&d session this assignment has seen. Other than that the penis has been fully encased in a solid steel tube secured though my PA piercing and lock on. Fun times….

Chastity Assignment 4 (Ended??????)

This is Grumpys new assignment. He has been out of assignment for entirely too long.

  • This Assignment starts tonight at midnight (Thursday May 24th 2017 at 0001). I am not going to tell you the hard set end date.
  • You will come to me and request T&D at least once in every 24 hours and those times run from midnight to midnight.
  • If T&D is denied when you request it, you are expected to request it again at a better time. Failure to do so will add 6 hours to your time.
  • You will come to me for cleaning and inspection every 3 days if you are wearing the SW cage and every 2 days if you are wearing the RC cage. Failure to do so will add 3 days to your time.
  • My initiation of T&D does not fulfill your responsibility to request it and will not earn you more time.
  • You can earn 6 hours ¬†for requesting and getting T&D more than once in a 24 hour period.
  • You will be assigned tasks that will earn you time off.
  • You can earn time off for pleasing me. This is not limited to my sexual gratification.
  • You will log everything pertaining to chastity or this assignment daily. Failure to log within 12 hours will add 6 hours to your time.

He had a really great idea of adding The Wheel which I am pretty sure he is going to regret since I am implementing it this time. The wheel will be spun on inspection day… or if I  just decide I want spun. The sections on the wheel will be:

  • Earn 6 hours
  • Add 12 hours
  • Cage Free T&D
  • No T&D
  • Earn 1 day
  • Add 3 days
  • Reward
  • Spin 2 more times

If the wheel lands on Reward, he can suggest what he would like his reward to be. It does not have to be related to his chastity or assignment. I reserve the right to refuse suggestions and of course, time off will not even be considered.

Cage free T&D can be ‚Äėbanked‚Äô

No T&D will be for that day only.

Spin 2 more times will apply both spins to his assignment.

Assignment 4 wheel

Life got a bit too lifelike there for a bit and then it seemed we fell into this odd weekday rut. Our longer weekend play sessions just kind of stopped happening due to other obligations for the most part. While assignments can get kind of rut-like, its still better than things have been.

As a end note: This post is how he will find out he is in assignment. Though I am fairly certain he knew it was coming soon.

6 June, Reward agreed upon is to bank a cage free t&d session.
6 June, t&d requested at 2315 for 17 minutes.
7 June, earned 12 hours for a full body massage and 6 hours for coming up with a fresh heated blanket right out of the dryer right after the massage.
7 June, T&d requested at 2320 for 27 minutes.
8 June, we were planning on t&d but sleep cam early for Locks and I didn’t want to wake her up.
9 June, t&d requested at 0915 for 35 minutes.
10 June, t&d requested at 0823 for 40 minutes.
10 June, extra t&d requested at 1202 for 22
minutes. Running tally at 42 hours off my time.
10 June, we played today… my ass is very red and bloody. We played then we played again. So by the standards of this agreement ive earned 12 hours. After a good beating i eventually asked for more. I was on the verve of tears the first time and maybe wanted to try again but a couldnt spring anouther tear. All good though running tally now at 54 hours
10 June, inspection requested at about 1600. Long play session ensued.
10 June, after the inspection I was tied up and beaten and treased for I’m guessing for about 3 hours. It’s really hard for me to keep track of the time cause well, in tied up and not able to look at clock but also most of the time we play I am wearing my sensory deprivation leather hood and that just makes the concept of time so much more difficult. This also counts as extra t&d. Tally at 60.
10 June, we stopped playing so we could make dinner and watched a movie. I asked Locks if we could play some more, that I needed more. She was happy to ablige and we played again with me hooded, bound, gagged, cage free and teased and beaten and lovingly abused for another 3 or 4 hours. Earned just 6 more hours ( doesn’t seem entirely fair that I only earned 12 hours from my time for more than 6 hours of beatings and teasings) tally at 66 hours.
11 June, t&d requested at 0030 for 20 minutes… got Locks off several times.
11 June, extra t&d requested at 0730 for 25 minutes. Locks woke up to the sensation of having two fingers buried into her pussy and 3 orgasms before she ever opened her eyes today. Running tally at 72 hours.
11 June, we didn’t spin the wheel yesterday after my inspection so I was told to spin twice this morning. The first spin landed one 1 day off my time (tally at 96 hours) and the second spin landed on “exempt from t&d”.
11 June, at 2030 this evening I was informed that this assignment has ended after 19 days (including the 96 hours or 4 days I had earned off). Apparently this was going to be a quick assignment this time………..

March’s Chastity Numbers

Another month of 2017 comes to a close. ¬†Therefore it is time to share what chastity has looked like for me this month. ¬†For those that have read though my blog, we know that my Current assignment¬†started at 0001 on 2 March. This month I think I did a really good job at keep accurate times of the time I have spent in and (occasionally out of) chastity. As you will see in a moment, unaccounted time equals 0% for the month. I can also assure you that unsupervised time uncaged during assignments also equals 0%. In addition almost all of the time I have spent cage free during my assignment has been spent with at least my hands cuffed and bound in some way. ¬†Pretty much the only time spend with a free penis and hands is during taking the cage off and cleaning then cleaning and putting the cage back on. So, here’s what this month looked like…

March Chastity Metrics

As you can see I spent 714 hours of a total possible 744 hours locked in chastity. This leaves about 30 hours of cage free time. That 30 hours also accounts for the 14 hours of cage free time that lead up the start of this assignment. So if i adjust the pie graph to remove March 1st it looks like this.

March Assignment 3 Metrics

Very similar but you can see that for the remainder of the 30 days left in march my free time dropped by half. Of course I cannot just leave a day out but thought that info was interesting.

So, without knowing when this assignment is going to end, at this point I do not see this month to be much different than what this month will in the end up showing.

What Does t&d Look Like?

So, I’ve been asked what a t&d session looks like between Locks and I. I’ve been trying to decide how best to answer this question and have come to the conclusion that our t&d can be best described within two general categories. There are a lot of different things we do for¬†t&d so describing what this isn’t the easiest thing to put into words. The first category I am going to call maintenance t&d (MTD).¬†t&d when done daily like we do for these longish chastity assignments tends to lead to certain common activities or rituals.

We of course did not set out to establish these rituals but when you do something daily routines develop. For example, we have found that our MTD sessions tend to last almost exactly 20 minutes every time. We do not set a timer or anything but a certain level of efficiency has set in. As of this moment we are 28 days, 16 hours and 54 minutes into this assignment (not that I am counting or anything). During that time we have had over 40¬†t&d sessions. I’d guess over half of those were MTD sessions. So far we are 89 days into 2017. of those 89 days I have been in active chastity assignments for almost 69 of those days. So yes, there has been a lot of¬†t&d the two of us have been doing this year. ¬†Obviously not all¬†t&d sessions can be some crazy scene so rituals set in to maintain these daily¬†t&d sessions.

So, what does MTD look like? Well, It’s simple in concept. For the most part I am always naked and laying on my back in the bed with Locks sitting crossed legged next to me. For these sessions the penis is almost always caged. We have a “personal massager” that Locks favors during these sessions. I wear mostly my steelworxx¬†Steelheart¬†cage which has just a small pee hole in an otherwise fully enclose cage (I hardly ever get to see the damn thing never mind touch it!) ¬†The tip of the massager fits sorta well to the small opening at the bottom of the cage (or top of the cage if I’m laying on my back). ¬†This sends a very pleasurable vibration though out the entire cage. We typically start off with using this to get an erection going. ¬†At the beginning of my assignments this takes a little more time to achieve but the longer the assignment goes the less time it takes to get me hard, go figure…

Once I am as hard as my cage allows then things progress. Next normally comes the nipple play as Locks “jacks” me off with my cage, or she edges me with the massager first. ¬†Locks leans down and starts sucking and biting on my nearest nipple (which most often is my left nipple) as she grabs a hold of my cage and starts to pull it up and down. This leads to a couple of edges normally. Next tends to be the ball pulling and slapping, though sometimes the ball busting starts things off too. ¬†By this point I tend to drift off into non-orgasmic bliss and articulating the ritual is a bit fuzzy. ¬†Clothes pins on the nipples are a common addition to MTD. As this assignment has progressed we have learned that I have really been enjoying ball abuse, especially when Locks grabs both of them in her hand and yanks and pulls them away from my body. ¬†I really enjoy them being pulled on, especially from behind, pulling them between my legs. ¬†Yup, I like that. Want them pulled on even harder. Yup, me on my hands and knees with my balls pulled back behind me. Stretched tight, vulnerable… We also learned that I can take a pretty good caning on my balls. That was agonizingly lovely…

But I digress.. Phew.. okay.. MTD… In the beginning of these assignments I don’t think 20 minutes really was enough but now that we are far into my third assignment 20 minutes seems to be the magic amount of time for a MTD session to last. It really is kind of funny. 18 minutes isn’t quite enough, 22 minutes and I end up oozing (or “making a mess”, sometimes at the level of a ruined orgasm which we try to avoid). ¬†We have learned that “oozing” does tend to give me a bit of release so we try to avoid it. Though the further we go the time frame from edging to orgasm gets smaller. Locks is good at reading me but “accidents” do happen.

For the most part of it, this sums of MTD for us. There are outliers. There has been a time or two that cage free MTD has happened though only when it coincides with inspection. In addition or MTD session tend to happen from Sunday though Wednesday. My days off from work typically are Friday and Saturday and Locks works Monday through Friday. This leads to what I am calling our exotic t&d (ETD) sessions to occur more on the weekend time frame (I know, totally shocking). When it comes to ETD, well.. I think that will be best for another post because there is so much more to cover. Things like strap-on use (both ways), hours of bondage, hours of impact play, play parties and so much more.. I think diving into all that will take several more posts to try and share.. So, on one final note to leave on… goodnight! ūüôā

To Know, Or Not to Know…

Prior to the start of the most recent chastity assignment we had discussed incorporating me not knowing the end date for the assignment. I have to admit, not knowing did sound kind of hot. With this in mind, Locks decided that we would use this tactic this time around. Trial and error if nothing else. Not knowing does appeal to me. I was told that the timeframe that was decided on is going to push me. Knowing that does excite me on several levels. It has only been a few days into this assignment. As of this writing it has been 4 days and 21 hours. Not really long enough for the full effect to really take effect. But not knowing the end date at first did seem to propel those feelings of denial. Experience has shown that it often takes a good week after an orgasm for the effects of denial to take hold.

At this point I am still within this first week so my feelings on all this may change as time goes on. To begin with not knowing was very appealing. As these short days have progressed another aspect as crept into my mind. I am more used to not knowing a release date, not knowing when i am going to cum again than I am knowing that date. Once we started doing these chastity assignments, prior to that it my cage free time (and when I came) was all random and unknown to me. Since we started doing these assignments, I knew the end dates but in-between I an still caged and left unknowing of any release time. I am not saying that I prefer one way or the other when it comes to chastity assignments, just expressing some thoughts about starting an assignment that includes not knowing the end date. I am interested to see if or how my views may change as this assignment progresses.

February Metics

Another month has expired and it is passed due to post my Metrics for the last month. ¬†This month has been a bit of a different one for me because we have incorporated a new device, the first one in about 6 years that has the potential for true long term wear. Unfortunately there has been some issues with the new device which has caused me to be cage free for a couple of extended periods of time. Twice I had to be cage free for 30 plus hours to allow some healing. But we are going back and fourth between the two cages and things are getting better with the new one. And so, without further adieu, here is the pie chart…

Feb Chastity Metrics

To start off, I was a little surprised to see that I was locked into the new cage for more than half of the month (51%). I do like the new Rigid Chastity device and I know I was trying to force things which caused two times requiring for those cage free periods. Those two cage free periods both lasted about 32 hours each. the final 12 hours cage free came prior to my most recent Chastity assignment. ¬†I do have to admit there is more cage free time in there accounting for cage free t&d but neither Locks nor I are the best at remembering to set the app prior to play. ¬†Still, the amount of time i spent cage free accounts for a minimal time over all. Best guess would be 1-2% time over all. ¬†It hasn’t been the easiest month for us over all, between the cage issues and being out of town. I spent more time out of my cage than I am used to. ¬†But life happens.

Chastity Assignment 3 – Ended

  • This Assignment starts tonight at midnight (00:01 2 March 2017). I am not going to tell you the end date.
  • You will come to me and request T&D at least once in every 24 hours and those times run from midnight to midnight.
  • If T&D is denied when you request it, you are expected to request it again at a better time. Failure to do so will add 6 hours to your time.
  • You will come to me for cleaning and inspection every 3 days if you are wearing the SW cage and every 2 days if you are wearing the RC cage. Failure to do so will add 3 days to your time.
  • My initiation of T&D does not fulfill your responsibility to request it and will not earn you more time.
  • You can earn 6 hours ¬†for requesting and getting T&D more than once in a 24 hour period.
  • You can request to trade 6 hours for cage free T&D. However I reserve the right to refuse.
  • You will be assigned tasks that will earn you time off.
  • You can earn time off for pleasing me. This is not limited to my sexual gratification.
  • You will log all T&D, inspections and cleaning, and times as well as infractions.¬†Failure to log within 12 hours is considered an infraction and will add 12 hours to your time.

The following is a log of activities as we progress through this assignment.

  1. t&d requested and granted 2 march at 9:10 pm.
  2. Earned 12 hours off my time (cannot say what the new release time is obviously) for doing something above what is expected of me. (also fixed a leaky faucet and re rearranged the bedroom, cleaning as i went)
  3. T&d requested and denied 3 march at about 2100. Failed to do a follow up request. 6 hours added to my time.
  4. T&d requested at 0900 on 4 march. Woke up a little horny and while Locks was sleeping I put on the hood and bound myself, giving her a little surprise for when she woke up.
  5. Inspection requested 5 Mar at 0730. Switched devices and now am wearing the rigidchastity device.
  6. t&d requested on 5 march but not given. Locks has been feeling a little ill, though apparently did earn 12 hours off my unknown time for being “generally awesome”
  7. T&d requested 7 march at about 0430 till about 0500.
  8. Inspection requested and switched back to the SH cage at about 0500 7 march.
  9. Extra t&d requested 7 march at 2017 for about an hour. Was given cage free. Earned 6 hours off my unknown time.
  10. t&d requested 8 march at 1745 for about 20 minutes.
  11. t&d requested 9 march at 2330 for about a half hour. Was instructed to use the strapon on Locks and that i would earn 2 hours off my time for every orgasm I gave her. She managed 10 orgasms so i earned 20 hours off my time. Currently a total of 44 hours has been accrued off my assignment time
  12. t&d requested 10 march at 1040 for about 30 minutes. This was cage free t&d ( with inspection)  which as always means that at least my hands were bound to the bed.
  13. Earned 10 hours off my time for randomly fucking Locks with the strapon which caused 5 orgasms for her.
  14. Earned 1 hour off my time for, on my own, using a lint roller on her black dress to get the white dog hair off of it. Locks was pleased that i took the initiative prior to us leaving to help make her look hella good! Total time off is now at 55 hours.
  15. extra t&d given at a play party Friday night 10 march at a play party we went to. earned 6 hours, total is now at 61 hours off.
  16. t&d was provided while in a hotel room after the play party very early Saturday morning. A friend and I stood in the doorway of the bedroom and watched another friend of ours eat the hell out of Locks. It was very hot and I was very hard and horny especially while the girl next to me was tugging on my balls. I also went down on both of our friends for a good bit each all while locked up. I’m getting pretty hard right now thinking and typing about it. I think this should earn me extra t&d damn, now I’m fucking horny as hell and I’m gonna have to leave for work soon!
  17. Extra t&d requested 11 March. I can’t really give a time frame on this because we spend pretty much the entire afternoon and night after we got home from the hotel in the bed being highly horny with each other. A conservative guess would be that Locks had at least 20 orgasms yesterday. I of course didn’t have any and was caged the entire time (and obviously still am) I was told i earned 12 hours for everything we did yesterday with my running tally now at 73 hours off.
  18. t&d requested 12 march at about 0845 for about 15 minutes and yet another orgasm for Locks this morning!
  19. Inspection requested and given 13 march.
  20. t&d requested 13 March at about 1800 and lasted for about 30 minutes
  21. t&d was requested on 14 march but due to Locks being ill it did not happen. No time was taken off my assignment.
  22. t&d requested 15 march at 1015 for about 10 minutes.
  23. t&d requested 16 March at 2300 for about 20 minutes
  24. Inspection requested 17 March which coincided with the following day’s t&d session.
  25. t&d planned (which counts for a requested t&d) 17 March at 1245 for over 3 hours. Cage free t&d (not able to do long sessions with the cage on, the base ring gets too painful) At the moment we are just taking a break and will be headed back to it after we eat. And btw, holy hell i want to cum!
  26. Earned 12 hours for pleasing Locks by taking her phone with me while i ran a couple of errands in between play sessions to get some pokestops. Running tally at 85 hours off.
  27. t&d continued after dinner lasting for another couple of hours. It was more cage free t&d which as always means i was bound. Lost 12 hours for “manipulating” Locks to go to a place she did not want to go. Running tally is now at 73 hours off my time.
  28. Extra t&d requested 17 march at 2325 for about 30 minutes. Running tally now at 79 hours off my time.
  29. t&d requested 18 march at 0833 and lasted for about 25 minutes.
  30. t&d requested 19 March at 0835 and lasted for about 30 minutes
  31. Inspection requested 20 march at 1845
  32. t&d requested 20 March at 1845 following inspection. t&d was cage free for about 45 minutes with arms cuffed to the bed and legs suspended to the bar above the bed.
  33. Extra t&d requested 20 March at about 2230. Locks wasn’t feeling very well so it did not happen but I was given 3 hours for my “ambition”. Running total time off is not at 82 hours.
  34. t&d requested 21 March at 2300 for about 20 minutes.
  35. t&d did not happen on 22 March. We were both very tired and not feeling too well. No time was added for this one.
  36. Earned 3 extra hours for saying something very funny and clever. Total is at least 85 hours.
  37. t&d requested 23 March at 2000 and went off and on for about 2 hours.
  38. t&d requested 24 March at 0830 for about 35 minutes.
  39. Extra t&d requested the afternoon of 24 March for a couple of hours. Add 6 hours.
  40. Extra t&d requested the evening of 24 March for 57 minutes. Add 6 hours with the running total at 97 hours. This was cage free t&d and I was even allowed inside Locks and able to give her a couple of orgasms with the penis before i had to stop cause… holy fuck that felt good!
  41. Extra t&d requested the night of 24 March for about an hour and a half. This time there was the usual nipple sucking/pinching/biting but also a good bit of cane action on my ass, thighs and balls… Yup, my balls got good and caned last night. Running tally is at 103 hours.
  42. t&d requested 25 March at about 0800 for 20 minutes. Last night Locks hurt her hands from spanking me so our plans for kayaking today got changed to laying in bed and watching movies. ¬†So yeah, I’m sure it’s going to be another long frustrating day for the penis…………..
  43. Extra t&d requested 25 march at 1402 for 20 minutes. Running tally at 109 hours.
  44. Extra t&d requested 25 March at about 1600 for another 20 minutes. Tally at 115 hours.
  45. Extra t&d requested 25 March at about 1830 for 15 minutes. Tally is at 121 hours.
  46. Early inspection requested, more for cleaning purposes.
  47. t&d requested March 26th at 0845 for about 25 minutes. There were at least 20 edgings done.
  48. Gave Locks a massage today, 26 March for about 30 minutes. Apparently she really enjoyed it cause she gave me 20 hours off my time. Running tally now at 141 hours. (And this is why I so rarely give people massages, I’m kind of good at it :/
  49. I was exempted from t&d on 27 March due to a long day at work.
  50. t&d was given 27 March for about 20 minutes and I was told that it counts as extra t&d since I had been exempted for the day. Tally at 147 hours.
  51. t&d requested 28 march that consisted of me (caged of course) wearing the strapon and fucking Locks for about 30 minutes. Though i lost 12 hours because i did not log the t&d within the 12 hour time frame. Tally now at 135 hours.
  52. Earned an extra 12 hours for reasons not to be disclosed. Tally back at 147 hours.
  53. t&d requested 29 march at 2013 for 27 minutes. ¬†I was uncaged and was able to get the penis good and wet inside Locks for about 20 minutes edging myself numerous times without of course cuming. The last 7 minutes or so was spent with Locks continuing to edge me some more with one of our “personal massagers.”
  54. Inspection occurred 29 March at 2012 just prior to the above t&d.
  55. Was exempt from t&d for 30 March.
  56. Okay so, t&d happened this morning starting at 0638. While Locks was sleeping I started to rub her clit with my hand. For a few moments there was no response then as she started to wake up to the sensations I inserted a couple of fingers and did my thing leading her to a couple of orgasms. ¬†Then i moved up the bed a bit so i could put the cage in her hand (which i was already as hard as i can get in the cage). At that point the next step of t&d started and continued until 0700 when the alarm when off. Afterwards I asked if that counted as t&d since I didn’t actually VERBALLY asked prior to all this, which would have meant that I would have to woken her up first which kind of defeats the purpose of wanting to wake Locks up with fingers buried in her pussy. So yeah, I was told that this morning did not count for my daily t&d but she was kind enough to give me three hours for pleasing her… Running tally now at 150 hours.
  57. Inspection requested 31 March. Switched out cages and now wearing the Ridgidchastity cage. We will see how that goes.
  58. t&d requested 31 March at 2315 for about 30 minutes. Consisted of me fucking Locks with the strap-on…
  59. t&d requested the morning of 1 April for about 30 minutes at about maybe 0730.
  60. Extra t&d requested 1 April at about 2300 for about 40 minutes. This session was mostly impact play that left my ass good and bloody. Running tally at 156 hours.
  61. I was exempt from t&d 2 April.
  62. Inspection occurred 3 April at around 2000. Still wearing the new ridgidchastity device and this time around things are going well. No pain and no bleeding.
  63. Locks is not feeling well and I was exempt from t&d for 3 April.
  64. Exempt from t&d for 4 April.
  65. Experiencing a little tenderness from the RC device. Switched back to the SH cage on 5 April at 0830.
  66. t&d requested 5 April at 0900 for about 10 minutes.
  67. T&d requested 6 April at 2230 for about 45  minutes. Included some lighter bondage.
  68. Inspection requested 7 April and switched back to the RC cage.
  69. Play party on 7 April which always counts for t&d.
  70. Earned 12 hours off my time for taking care of Locks while at a local event while she was sick.
  71. Earned 6 hours off my time for a joke our friend Joy will get when she reads this and asks about it. Running tally now at 168 hours.
  72. Exempt from t&d 8 april.
  73. Requested t&d 9 april at about 0910 for 20 minutes.
  74. t&d requested 10 April at 1720 for 35 minutes. So much edging, so fucking close but of course, Nope!
  75. Inspection requested 10 April at 1815.